I suppose the answer to this question relates to what you
            precisely mean by the word "adjust." If you mean does she become American and leave her
            Chinese part behind, then definitely the answer is no. However, if your question refers
            to the way in which immigrants out of necessity have to form some kind of compromise
            between their cultural heritage and the culture of their new country, then we can say
            that Jing-Mei's mother does adjust to America in this
            sense.
We need to remember that for any immigrant, life is
            very difficult as you have to adapt to a radically different set of cultural norms and
            values. You cannot carry on living your life as you did in your former country, and yet
            you are not able to completely leave your life behind either, as you are indelibly
            marked by your culture. Jing-Mei's mother does her best to live in America but also
            tries to bring up her daughter with Chinese values and culture. Consider how she
            responds to Jing-Mei's act of defiance in the story:
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"Only two kinds of daughters," she shouted in
            Chinese. "Those who are obedient and those who follow their own mind! Only one kind of
            daughter can live in this house, Obedient
            daughter!"
Clearly, the fact
            that she is speaking in Chinese to her daughter and the way in which she demands
            obedience from Jing-Mei indicates that, whilst she is able to live in America, she is
            still very definitely Chinese and still looks at life from her Chinese
            perspective.
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