A man named, oddly enough, Erik Erikson came up with this
idea. He developed a list of 7 stages of "psychosocial"
development:
- HOPE
--"trust versus mistrust." An infant is unable to take care of itself,
and must rely on caregivers. If those caregivers are good at meeting the child's needs,
such as for food, safety, and love, that child will grow up trusting that others are
capable of doing so. If the parents do not meet those needs it will grow up mistrusting
others. - WILL --"autonomy
versus doubt." Infants begin to explore the world and satisfy some of their own needs.
They are more mobile and capable of interacting with the world and developing unique
interests. If parents nurture this and provide opportunities for growth, children will
become independent. If parents restrict their child too much, or do too many things for
the child that they could do on their own, he or she will begin doubting their ability
to solve problems. - PURPOSE
--"initiative versus guilt." This is trickier one. At this time, around
pre-school and kindergarten, the development of goals begins to occur. Children start
wanting to be more independent and make some of their own decisions. They undertake
activities with the idea that they are trying to accomplish something. If caregivers
encourage this, while also teaching about limits, the child will develop and be willing
to take certain risks to achieve goals. If the child is restricted, or if parents see
their desires as unimportant, the child will develop a sense of "guilt" about their
needs and retreat. - COMPETENCE
--"Industry vs. Inferiority." Interests continue to develop and children
begin to understand the concepts of "good and bad, right and wrong." They learn that
sometimes hard work needs to take the place of immediate pleasures. If their efforts
toward creation and learning are encouraged, they will adopt these values in the future
to strive for goals through education and discipline. If they are not given
opportunities to succeed, or they fail at the ones they are given, they will consider
themselves "not good enough" and stop
trying. - FIDELITY -- This
covers the high school years and is about "identity vs. role confusion." During this
time kids transition into adults. They make their own choices about their beliefs and
try to find their place in the world. Given time and support they will solidify their
identity and be prepared for adulthood. Otherwise, they will develop shifting, confused
ideas about
self. - LOVE--"intimacy vs.
isolation." Once teenagers figure out "who they are," they are capable of reciprocal
relationships in their 20's. Proper previous development allows this, while failure
during earlier stages makes this difficult.
- CARE--"Generatively vs.
Stagnation" Between about 40 and 65 people develop the need to feel like their life has
some meaning by being an asset to society. Those who meet this need, through their work
or volunteerism, feel fulfilled. Those who don't slip toward becoming isolated and
frustrated over their lack of
contribution. - WISDOM--"Ego
Integrity vs. Despair." During our later years, retrospection occurs. If people look
back on a happy, productive life, they feel satisfied. If they look back on a selfish
life with unfulfilled goals or a lack of meaning, they become
depressed.
I don't have enough words left in
the ol' word count to go into the strengths of each phase, but you should be able to
suss them out.
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